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What to Do If Your Significant Other Refuses to Sign a Prenup

Prenups & Postnups

You love your fiancé and have faith in your relationship. Yet, you know that if anything goes wrong in the...

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What Will Get You “Cancelled” in Divorce? Don’t Do These 3 Divorce No-Nos.

Divorce, Divorce mediation, High Asset Divorce

Maintaining a civil relationship with your spouse during divorce can be a real challenge, but it is worth it. Being...

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Understanding ‘Stuckness’ in Marriage Through the Lens of Collaborative Divorce

Collaborative Divorce, Divorce

Being “stuck” in a marriage evokes an image of sinking slowly into quicksand. No matter how much you struggle, there’s...

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Navigating the Path Together: The Power of Collaborative Divorce in 2023

Collaborative Divorce, Divorce

Divorce has become an inevitable part of many journeys in the complex landscape of modern relationships. Exploring evolving approaches to...

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Westchester Visitation Lawyer

Divorce, Preparing for divorce

Visitation rights are one of the most critical issues for any couple going through a divorce. The initial divorce, child...

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Divorce After a Long Marriage: How to Rebuild Your Life

Divorce

You stayed with your spouse far longer than you should have, but you‘ve finally pulled the plug and gotten divorced....

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New York Child Support Guide – Everything You Need To Know

Child Support, Children in Divorce, Family Court

Most parents going through a separation or divorce, whether in mediation, Collaborative Law, or court-based litigation, are aware that some...

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What Is Divorce Coaching And How Can It Help?

Divorce

Harriet Lerner writes in The Dance of Connection, “Perhaps nothing leaves us more vulnerable than the threat of relationship loss....

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8 Advantages Of Collaborative Divorce

Collaborative Divorce

Once you know what defines the process, it’s important to know why you might want to choose it over more...

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Conflict Resolution: Change Your Perspective

Divorce, Divorce mediation

Find some objectivity to translate conflict into problem-solving. I have a dear old friend who I value for her willingness...

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Parental Alienation: Everything You Need To Know

Children in Divorce, Divorce with children, Family Court

Recently I spoke to Charlie Jamison on my radio show, Divorce Dialogues. Charlie is a Board-certified Marital and Family Law...

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Post-Divorce Dating Profiles That Work

Dating, Post-Divorce

Getting Out There! Do’s and Don’ts of an Online Dating Profile With nearly 2,500 online dating sites in the US alone,...

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Mother And Daughter Relationship During Divorce

Children in Divorce, Divorce

The mother and daughter relationship is unique. There’s a special bond forged through a lifetime of advice, companionship, strength, and...

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Mindful Co-Parenting After Divorce: The 6 Keys

Children in Divorce, Coparenting, Divorce with children, Family Court

Divorce can cause a lot of sleepless nights. Worries about joint property and investments, co-owned businesses, not to mention peace,...

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We Are Thinking About Divorce, Can I Move Out?

Divorce, Preparing for divorce

Move Out in Divorce “My wife wants me to move out.” We hear this sentence frequently. Oftentimes, the spouse says...

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Actions As Evidence: How Your Threats and Insults Can Cost you Custody

Custody, Divorce, Divorce with children, Family Court

Actions As Evidence: Shifting Your Mindset in Divorce  Divorce can be disorienting. Things you thought you knew about your spouse...

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Divorce After An Affair

Adultery, Divorce

I frequently meet with new clients shortly after they or their spouses have revealed or discovered an affair. This is...

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True Empathy: What Feeling Another’s Pain Requires

Collaborative Divorce, Preparing for divorce

“Empathy” is a popular—and often misused—term. What people usually mean when they talk about “having empathy” is “kindness” or perhaps...

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The Storm Out: What Is It, Why We Do It, What To Do

Collaborative Divorce, Mediation

What Is A Storm Out? Sometimes in divorce negotiations, whether in mediation or collaborative sessions, someone gets upset or feels...

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Divorce When The Woman Is The Breadwinner

Divorce, High Asset Divorce

Does It Make A Difference If The Woman Is The Breadwinner? It’s human nature to want to call money “yours”...

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Threats As Evidence In Divorce

Divorce

The Right Way to Deal with Legal Threats As Evidence In Divorce “I was never ruined but twice—once when I...

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PROTECTING CHILDREN IN DIVORCE

Children in Divorce, Collaborative Divorce, Divorce

I had been a divorce litigator for 10 years when I faced divorce myself. At the time, I was spending...

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How to Move on After Divorce

Divorce

People in the process of divorce find themselves at the intersection of what was and what will be. That intersection...

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Reproductive Technology Law

Divorce, Reproductive Technology

Families are built in a variety of wondrous ways. When your family-building journey involves assisted reproductive technology, surrogates, gestational carriers,...

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Westchester Post Divorce Estate Planning Lawyer

Divorce, Post-Divorce, Preparing for divorce

After a divorce, everything changes — even your estate planning needs. As part of finalizing matters and moving forward with...

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Calculating Spousal Maintenance in Westchester

Divorce

When a couple goes through a divorce, it can have a significant economic impact on both spouses, and it can...

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YOUR DIVORCE DOES NOT DEFINE YOU

Collaborative Divorce

Even when we are hurt, angry, sad and confused many of us try to find an honest and authentic voice...

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