Children’s Bill of Rights

As I make this video, it’s back-to-school time, and for those going through a divorce, this period can be particularly tense. After the relaxed summer, it’s time to get back to a structured schedule, which can bring its own set of challenges. I’m Katherine Miller, and with over 30 years of experience as a divorce attorney in New York City and New York State, I’ve helped many people navigate this transitional period.

One valuable tool we use is the Children’s Bill of Rights. Developed by Dr. Robert Emery, this guide helps parents make decisions with their children’s best interests at heart during difficult times. I understand that all parents going through a divorce want to do what’s best for their kids. However, emotions can run high, and it can be challenging to keep that goal in focus.

The Children’s Bill of Rights includes 12 key points for parents. Here are three important ones:

  1. The Right to Not Choose Sides: Children should not be put in the position of choosing between their parents. These are adult issues and should remain separate from their experience.
  2. The Right Not to Hear Negative Comments About the Other Parent: It can be tempting to speak ill of your co-parent when you’re angry, but it’s crucial to avoid this. Children should not be burdened with negative views of their other parent.
  3. The Right Not to Feel Guilty for Loving Both Parents: Regardless of the circumstances, your children should feel free to love and maintain a bond with both parents. This support helps them become more resilient and successful in the long run.

If you’re interested in reviewing the full Children’s Bill of Rights, please provide your information in the link below, and I’ll be happy to send it to you. As always, thanks for listening.