Divorce Does Not Destroy Family

Are you contemplating divorce but worried about the impact on your family? It’s understandable to have concerns about preserving your family’s well-being and protecting your children during such a challenging time. While divorce can be disruptive and difficult, it doesn’t have to destroy the sense of family you’ve built.

I’m Catherine Miller, and my decision to establish my own firm was driven by a desire to help people navigate divorce in a way that changes their family dynamics without completely dismantling them. The key to managing this transition lies in choosing the right approach to divorce.

The Importance of Your Divorce Process

The most significant decision you’ll make during the divorce process is how you choose to divorce. This choice will profoundly impact the outcome, how your children adjust, and how you feel about your future.

In the United States, approximately 95% of divorces are resolved before a judge makes a final decision at trial. This means that most people, with the assistance of mediators, attorneys, or mental health professionals, reach agreements on their own terms rather than leaving these crucial decisions to a stranger.

Here are some common approaches to settling a divorce:

  1. Mediation: In this process, a neutral facilitator helps both parties have constructive discussions and reach a mutually acceptable agreement. Mediation emphasizes collaboration and often helps maintain a more amicable relationship.
  2. Negotiation: This involves working with your attorneys to settle the terms of the divorce without going to court. It allows for negotiation and compromise while keeping the process out of the courtroom.
  3. Collaborative Divorce: Each person hires their own attorney, but the attorneys agree to avoid litigation. This approach fosters cooperative problem-solving and focuses on reaching a settlement that works for both parties.
  4. Litigation: This process involves some court involvement, but you may avoid a full trial. It can be a way to settle disputes while still seeking judicial guidance.

If you’re uncertain about which process might be best for you, click the link below to access our comprehensive guide to divorce processes. We can help you explore your options and find the approach that suits your needs.

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