Divorce Negotiation for Women
I’m Katherine Miller, and I’ve been a divorce attorney for over 30 years. In that time, I’ve worked with countless women who needed guidance on navigating their divorce negotiations for the best outcome. I’ve put together this video with some tips to help you think through what’s right for you.
Tip number one: Don’t take it personally. I know divorce is deeply personal and painful, and it involves many intimate aspects of your life. However, it’s important to remember that this divorce does not define you. Just as your marriage didn’t define you, the divorce doesn’t either, despite any shame or embarrassment you might feel about how it looks to others.
Tip number two: Don’t expect him to admit he’s in the wrong. It’s unlikely he’ll acknowledge his faults, and it’s not essential for your divorce negotiation. Focus on the facts, the figures, the parenting arrangements, and not on seeking an apology for past grievances. What matters most is the practical aspects of the divorce.
Tip number three: When negotiating a co-parenting plan, think of it as starting a business—the business of raising your children. He’ll handle his responsibilities, you’ll handle yours, and together you can raise happy, healthy, and successful children with minimal conflict. If you’re concerned that he’s a better negotiator or more experienced, don’t worry. We have resources to help you strategize effectively. But if you need immediate assistance, just pick up the phone and give me a call. I’m here to help.