Things You Shouldn’t Worry About In Divorce
Our clients often ask us what they should be worried about during a divorce. But it’s just as important to consider what you shouldn’t be worried about. Hi, I’m Katherine Miller. I’ve been a divorce attorney in New York for over 35 years, and during that time, I’ve seen many people stress over things they really shouldn’t.
This morning, I was reminded of this when I read Jackie O’Sioff’s blog, Divorced Girl Smiling. Jackie was a guest on my podcast and radio show, Divorce Dialogues, about a year ago, and she inspired me to share these three things you shouldn’t worry about during your divorce:
- What Other People Think: Don’t worry about the opinions of other moms, the dry cleaner, or your neighbors. Focus on what’s important to you and let others worry about themselves. If you’re concerned about gossip, remember that it will pass. Next week, there will be something new for people to talk about.
- Legal Jargon: Don’t stress over legal terms. Your lawyer should be able to explain everything to you in simple, understandable language. Terms like custody, alimony, and equitable distribution can be confusing, so let your lawyer translate them into terms that make sense to you.
- Leaving No Penny on the Table: It’s not about squeezing out every last cent. While it’s important to be fair, obsessing over every dollar will not bring you lasting happiness. Focus on the bigger picture and what’s best for your future.
If you want more tips from experts like Jackie O’Sioff, I encourage you to subscribe to the Divorce Dialogues podcast. You can find it at this link or wherever you listen to podcasts. Thanks for listening!